"Who Else Wants to Learn to Program Your Own Mind for Amazing Success With Dating, Seduction, and More?"
Discover how these incredible techniques from Neuro-Linguistic Programming, TIME Techniques and Conversational Hypnosis can help make you irresistable to women, and have co-workers, bosses, potential employers and others eating out of your hand!
By Michael Stevenson
Certified Master Trainer of NLP, TIME Techniques and Hypnotherapy
Author of the best-selling book "Learn Hypnosis... Now!"
Dating "gurus" are everywhere these days.
You might say it's a mystery how Mystery got successful, realize that Style had no style, or wonder how David D doubled his dating.
They all have their stories they tell.
But the truth is, what started the entire "seduction community" is Neuro-Linguistic Programming, and it's what all the so-called gurus are using to create the few techniques they're willing to throw your way for a few thousand dollars, each.
Wouldn't it be nice if you knew what they know?
Read on, because I'm going to tell you what they don't want you to hear. Here are 10 techniques from Neuro-Linguistic Programming – also known as NLP – that will improve your game by 37% or more.
TECHNIQUE #1: How to Make Her Instantly Like You
How many times have you talked to a hot woman and she showed no interest in you whatsoever?
Yeah, you're not alone. It happens a lot.
The real questions is, how do you change that?
The answer comes from Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) and it's called "rapport technology."
Have you ever noticed that when two people are really into each other they tend to move like each other?
This isn't news... scientists have been talking about it for years. When people are in rapport, they tend to sit the same way, make similar gestures, reach for their drinks at the same time.
What's amazing about this is that, like most things in the human nervous system, rapport is a feedback system. In other words, if you begin to mimick the similar posture, gestures and moves very subtly, the other person will begin to feel rapport. They won't be able to help it. It's hardwired into our nervous system.
Neuro-Linguistic Programming gives us literally unending combinations of things to match and mirror (the NLP terms for following someone else's lead). In this short article, we'll keep it simple and talk about just three:
- Posture: Sit the way they're sitting. If she crosses her legs, wait a few seconds and cross yours. If she leans in when talking to you, lean in, too. If she tilts her head... you get it.
- Gestures: You can approximately mimick her gestures without looking like some monkey who's making fun of her. You must be subtle, but if you begin to use gestures like she's using, you'll make a lot of headway.
- Synchronize: Do things like reaching for your drink at the same time as her. Match the angle she is facing you. Women are very sensitive to this. If she's facing you at only a 45 degree angle and you're facing her straight on, you have violated one of the unwritten (until now) rules of sexual communication. Facing each other full-on is only done when both parties are comfortable and in rapport and move together.
Matching these three things will go a long way toward getting your foot in the door, and within ten to fifteen minutes, she'll fee like she's known you forever. Women are always watching men's body movements to see if they're communicating like they are. Begin using this tool not only with women, but in every aspect of life. It's amazing what people will give to you and do for you, when they like you.
Now, sometimes, you don't have ten to fifteen minutes, or you don't want to wait that long. If this is the case, begin studying the techniques of rapport offered by Neuro-Linguistic Programming. There are other things you can match which will accellerate your success to virtual "instant rapport" with anyone you want!
TECHNIQUE #2: The Art of the Approach
How many times have you gone out to a bar and found one woman that really made you want her?
And how many times have you waited to catch her eye or talk to her, only to find that some other guy walked up took her before you got the chance.
And doesn't it really suck when that guy is making out with her ten minutes later? What's going on here?
It's actually very simple... You're scared shitless.
Be honest. If you were brave enough, you would have walked right up, right?
So, now that we're finally being honest, we can fix the problem. There are a few very powerful ways to go about eliminating shyness and hesitation forever. I'm going to share with you two quick techniques that will at least make it go away in the moment.
The first technique comes from the field of TIME Techniques, and eliminates anxiety in seconds.
For more than a hundred years, psychologists have known that the mind stores memories in "locations," around us, and that those locations form a line from past to future. It could be from left to right, back to front, top to bottom... that all depends on you.
Knowing this, I want you to ask yourself, which direction is the past. Don't think about it logically, just point. Got it? Good. And which direction is the future? Again, don't think about it... just point. Notice that those two directions you pointed imply a line from past, through the present, and into the future. Your line maybe inside you or outside you, and that's fine.
Now, if you close your eyes, you can imagine floating above your timeline, and seeing all the events in your life in one way or another... however it looks, sounds and feels to you is just right, because it's your timeline. Take a quick trip on your timeline. Make sure you're always looking through your own eyes – not seeing yourself, as if you were watching you in a movie.
Take a trip back into the past, as far as you'd like. Turn around and go into the future some. Then float really high, so your timeline is just one inch long. When you've had your fun, come back to now on the timeline, float down into now, and return back to the room. Fun isn't it?
Now for the technique. If anxiety has really got you down, you can do this in just seconds. When you're about to approach a woman, take a second to imagine your timeline. Float above your timeline, and go into your future, 15 minutes past the successful completion of the approach. When you get there, turn around and look back toward "now" on your timeline, and ask yourself, "Where is the anxiety? Is it there, or did it just disappear?"
By the way, it always disappears if you do it right. If it didn't disappear, you probably didn't follow the most important instruction. Notice, I said to go out 15 minutes past the successful completion of the approach. That means, in your timeline, that you're seeing it exactly as you'd like it to go. Use this technique. You'll love it!
Next, is a technique from NLP called "dissociation." Dissociation means something similar to "leaving your own body." As you're making the approach, imagine, in your mind's eye, that you're watching yourself approaching her from a distant place. Maybe even outside a window or a door. This technique has been used as part of the famous NLP five-minute phobia cure for decades, and will absolutely take the edge off your approach.
If you're still feeling the excitement a little too much, then you can "double dissociate." Imagine that you're cloning yourself one more time (so there's three of you), and you're now watching yourself, watching yourself approaching the hottie. You'll be amazed at the results.
One other thing. Breathe. Taking nice, regular deep breaths as you walk up will make you feel better, and make you appear more confident.
If you want to really eliminate all those fears for good, and create an unstoppable confidence and self-control, look into TIME Techniques and NLP patterns such as Anchoring, the Swish and maybe even the Fast Phobia Model.
TECHNIQUE #3: Tickling Her Imagination
I've run out of space for this newsletter. Check back next week for Techniques #3 and #4!
Your Friend,
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